How to Prepare for Your Boudoir Session
There’s something magical about embracing yourself—unfiltered, raw, and real. A boudoir session is not just about taking pictures; it’s about reclaiming your confidence, celebrating your body, and stepping into your power. Whether you’re preparing for your first boudoir shoot or you’ve done this before, it’s natural to feel both excited and nervous. But don't worry—I've got you covered.
I believe in creating a space where you can feel confident, comfortable, and most importantly, yourself. So let’s talk about how to prepare for your boudoir session in a way that leaves you feeling relaxed, radiant, and ready to capture your most intimate, sensual moments.
1. Embrace the Experience
First and foremost, remember this is your time to feel empowered. Boudoir photography isn’t about perfection; it’s about capturing the beauty that’s uniquely you. It’s easy to get caught up in expectations, but I want you to embrace the experience as a chance to connect with your body, explore your sensuality, and celebrate your confidence—no matter your shape, size, or age.
This session is about your own story, your own confidence, and how you express yourself in front of the camera. Come in with an open heart, and let go of any preconceived notions. This is your moment.
2. Choose Outfits That Reflect You
When it comes to boudoir photography, clothing plays an important role in helping you feel comfortable, confident, and empowered. I always encourage my clients to choose pieces that they feel truly themselves in. This could be anything from delicate lace lingerie to an oversized shirt that’s totally cozy and effortless. The key is to select items that make you feel good when you wear them.
For those based in Edmonton, Calgary, or Toronto, think about outfits that you can bring to the studio or have on hand for your boudoir session. You may want to go for a mix of styles—something sensual and daring, paired with something soft and intimate. A flowy robe, a classic black bra and panties set, or even a silk slip all add their own unique touch to your session. And don't forget the details—think about accessories, such as jewelry or heels, that you can incorporate into the shoot. The goal is to wear pieces that make you feel like the most confident version of yourself.
3. Hair & Makeup: Enhance, Don’t Hide
Professional hair and makeup can elevate your boudoir experience, but remember that it’s all about enhancing your natural beauty. The goal isn’t to look drastically different, but to enhance what you already have—whether it’s soft waves in your hair or a glow on your skin. I’ve partnered with amazing hair and makeup artists who understand the importance of a natural, yet striking look that matches your unique vibe.
If you’re in Edmonton, Calgary, or Toronto, feel free to reach out for recommendations or add on these services to make the most of your experience. When your makeup and hair are done, it helps you feel pampered and confident, allowing you to truly step into your own sensuality and beauty.
4. Focus on Hydration and Rest
The days leading up to your boudoir session are your time to take care of yourself. Drink plenty of water to keep your skin glowing and hydrated. Proper hydration is essential for looking and feeling your best, especially when we’re going to be capturing such intimate moments.
In the days before your shoot, try to get good rest. Sleep will not only help you feel refreshed and energized, but it also contributes to how you look in front of the camera. Being well-rested helps you feel more at ease and gives you that natural, glowing look that comes with a good night’s sleep. Your confidence will radiate through when you’re feeling well and rested.
5. Let Go of Self-Doubt
It's normal to feel a little anxious before your session, but I want to remind you that your beauty isn’t defined by a number or an ideal. Boudoir photography is about seeing yourself as you truly are—sensual, confident, and full of stories. You are the heroine of your own narrative, and I’m here to help you embrace that.
There’s no “perfect” body for boudoir photography. Your body is already perfect in its uniqueness. Whether you’re curvy, slender, or anywhere in between, your beauty shines through the moments of connection we create together. I’m here to guide you through every step of the session, helping you feel comfortable in your skin and confident in every pose.
6. The Power of Trust and Communication
This is a big one. I want you to feel like you have complete control over your boudoir session. If something feels uncomfortable or if you’re not sure about a pose, just let me know! This is your shoot, and your comfort is my priority. Trust is key to capturing intimate, genuine moments. I will guide you through every part of the process—from poses to positioning—but also, we’ll work together to create images that feel like you. If there’s something specific you envision, feel free to share that with me.
And remember: I’m not just your photographer; I’m a storyteller. Let’s create something real, something that captures the heart and soul of who you are. Whether you want your boudoir shoot to feel romantic, moody, or playful, I’m here to make your vision come to life.
7. The Final Touch: Own It
When the day of your boudoir session arrives, I want you to feel as prepared as possible, but also open to the magic that happens when you’re fully immersed in the experience. This is your time to shine. Once you’re in front of the camera, remember that you’re allowed to feel all of it—the excitement, the nerves, the joy, and the freedom. Own it.
Boudoir Photography in Alberta & Toronto
If you’re in Edmonton, Calgary, or Toronto, I’d love to capture this empowering journey with you. Boudoir photography is a deeply personal experience that can transform the way you see yourself. Let me help you celebrate your beauty, capture your sensuality, and immortalize your story in images you’ll cherish forever. Whether it’s a gift for yourself or a partner, a boudoir session is a beautiful way to celebrate the love you have for yourself.
