What to Wear for Your Boudoir Session: Lingerie & Outfit Ideas for Confidence and Style
Choosing the right outfit for your boudoir session is all about feeling confident, comfortable, and beautiful in your own skin. While lingerie is a popular choice, it’s not the only option! What makes your boudoir photos intimate and powerful is you—your personality, your energy, and your story. Whether you want to embrace classic lace lingerie or opt for cozy loungewear, this guide will help you choose the perfect outfit to match your vibe and flatter your figure.
Non-Lingerie Outfit Ideas
Your boudoir session doesn’t have to be all lace and satin—sometimes, everyday clothing can feel just as sexy and personal. Here are some non-lingerie options that still create intimate, beautiful images:
Dresses – Flowing dresses can add movement and romance to your photos, while a little black dress offers a timeless, sultry look.
Shorts & a Tank or T-Shirt – Jean shorts and a tank top bring a playful, relaxed energy that’s perfect for a fun, carefree session.
Jeans & a Tank or T-Shirt – A classic look that can be styled in so many ways, whether effortlessly cool or subtly sensual.
Oversized Sweater – Soft, cozy, and perfect for indoor sessions. An off-the-shoulder sweater can create a natural, alluring look.
Bathing Suit – A great alternative to lingerie, especially for an outdoor or beach session.
Loungewear – Soft, comfortable, and intimate, loungewear tells a personal story and adds a relaxed touch to your images.
Something belonging to your partner - Bring a jersey, dress shirt, tie, oversized sweater, etc. that belongs to your partner to pose in.
Lingerie Based on Body Shape
Finding lingerie that flatters your body shape will enhance your confidence and highlight your favorite features. Now, I hate using the fruit system to distinguish body shape, but it is still the most common tool and easy to understand. So, please, bear with me!
Apple Shape (Curvaceous with a fuller bust and midsection): Opt for teddies or bodysuits with V-necks to draw attention to your chest and elongate your silhouette.
Rectangle Shape (Athletic figure with a straight waist): Corsets, bustiers, and pieces with ruffles or lace at the bust and hips create curves and definition.
Pear Shape (Wider hips, smaller bust): Highlight your lower half with teddies, V-cut panties, and matching sets. To balance your shape, choose lingerie that draws attention upward, like a corset or bustier.
Inverted Triangle Shape (Broad shoulders, narrow hips): A teddy or a sleek bra with ruffled panties helps balance your proportions. A kimono or classic negligee also flatters this shape beautifully.
Hourglass Shape (Balanced proportions with a narrow waist): Most lingerie styles suit this shape, but corsets, teddies, and garter belts accentuate the waist beautifully.
Check out Armoire’s blog post, How to Find Your Body Shape, for details on how to determine which shape best represents your body.
Tips for Choosing the Right Outfit for You
Beyond body shape, your outfit should make you feel like your best self. Here’s how to pick pieces that bring out your confidence:
1. Highlight Your Favorite Features
Boudoir is all about celebrating you. Choose outfits that draw attention to your favorite parts of your body:
Love your chest? Opt for a plunging neckline or a strappy bralette.
Want to highlight your booty? High-waisted panties or cheeky-cut bottoms work beautifully.
Obsessed with your hips? A garter belt or form-fitting teddy will accentuate them.
Want to make your eyes pop? Choose a lingerie color that complements your eye color—deep blues, rich reds, or classic blacks can make a statement.
2. Choose an Outfit That Matches the Vibe of Your Session—And YOU!
Your boudoir session should feel like an extension of you. Whether you’re going for soft and romantic, sultry and dramatic, or fun and playful, your outfit should reflect your personality.
Soft & Romantic: Think lace bralettes, flowy fabrics, sheer robes, and soft pastels.
Sultry & Bold: Strappy lingerie, dark colors, high heels, and garter belts add drama and intensity.
Casual & Playful: Jeans, cozy sweaters, crop tops, or even his favorite button-down shirt bring an effortless charm.
Edgy & Modern: Bodysuits, leather details, fishnets, or bold jewel-toned lingerie create a striking look.
Want more inspiration for creating the perfect session vibe? Check out my blog post: How to Choose Your Boudoir Vibe: Finding the Perfect Style for You.
3. Prioritize Comfort & Confidence
At the end of the day, the best outfit for your boudoir session is the one that makes you feel incredible. If you’re comfortable and confident, it will radiate through your photos. Don’t force yourself into an outfit just because it’s trendy—go with what makes you feel like the best version of you.
Final Thoughts
Your boudoir session is a celebration of your unique beauty, and your outfit should reflect that. Whether you choose delicate lace lingerie, cozy loungewear, or something completely unexpected, the most important thing is that you feel empowered and confident.
Ready to book your session? Check out our boudoir packages in Edmonton, Calgary, and Toronto to create an experience that’s all about you!
